Did you know that there are social groups of various sizes, all over the
country, that have occasional parties? You know what else? Sometimes they throw
these parties and the various hosts actually do all the work for the party. They
don't require others to pitch in, bring things, or clean up when it's done. When
you ask them if you can help, they say, "No," or "I've got it under control."
What a concept. Imagine going to a party where the only thing you have to do is
attend.